Sweetie

Lili: This morning I was walking by the animal facility. These men, as I walked by, they shout "hey sweetie"
Bob: That's like construction workers. They whistle at a pretty lady
Lili: Well, it was uncomfortable
Me: Were they white?
Lili: No, they were african-american
Me: Ah, ok
Lili: I know that is bad behavior! My husband...he does not even call me sweetie!